TikTok has always been a fertile ground for trends that range from the outrageous to the subtly humorous. One of the latest to capture attention is the Very Demure, Very Mindful trend. Started by TikTok creator and makeup artist Jools Lebron, this trend has rapidly evolved into a satirical commentary on traditional ideas of modesty and mindfulness, turning the concept of being demure into a playful, almost absurd exaggeration.
What Does “Very Demure, Very Mindful” Mean?
The phrase โvery demure, very mindfulโ might sound like a guide to graceful living, but on TikTok, itโs a whole different ballgame. Originally popularized by Jools Lebron, the trend involves creators applying the terms “demure” and “mindful” to the most mundane or ridiculous actions. Think of someone quietly eating a sandwich or sitting at the airport, all while describing these actions as if they are the epitome of modesty and mindfulness. The irony, of course, is that these everyday activities are being elevated to a status of almost exaggerated virtue.
Lebronโs videos, where she humorously comments on how to act โdemure and modestโ at the workplace, have sparked a wave of similar content. Her satire pokes fun at the societal expectations placed on women to behave in a certain โproperโ way, all while maintaining an air of exaggerated politeness and reservation.
How the Trend Became Popular
The trend took off because of its relatable and satirical nature. After all, who hasnโt been in a situation where theyโve felt the pressure to appear composed and restrained? TikTok users quickly adopted the trend, creating their own versions where they describe doing the simplest things in the most demure and mindful way possible. The trend has even led to terms like “demuremaxxing” and “demuretsey,” where the goal is to be as demure (or as cutely demure) as possible in increasingly absurd situations.
One of the reasons this trend has resonated so widely is that itโs both funny and a little rebellious. Itโs a gentle jab at the often rigid societal norms around behavior, especially for women. By exaggerating these expectations to the point of absurdity, TikTok users are able to laugh at the ridiculousness of it all.
Using the Trend Yourself
If youโre looking to join the Very Demure, Very Mindful TikTok trend, itโs all about finding humor in the ordinary. Record yourself doing something completely routine, like making breakfast or getting dressed, and narrate it as if youโre performing an act of great poise and mindfulness. The more mundane the activity, the better it fits the trend. Remember, the key is to maintain a straight face and deliver your commentary with all the seriousness of a how-to guide.
The beauty of this trend lies in its simplicity and accessibilityโanyone can participate, and thereโs no need for fancy setups or elaborate scripts. Just a dash of irony and a touch of exaggeration are all you need to make your mark on this TikTok phenomenon.